Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
By:
Sherry Argov
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Description: Do you feel like you are too nice? Sherry Argov’s Why Men Love Bitches delivers a unique perspective as to why men are attracted to a strong woman who stands up for herself. With saucy detail on every page, this no-nonsense guide reveals why a strong woman is much more desirable than a "yes woman" who routinely sacrifices herself. The author provides compelling answers to the tough questions women often ask: -Why are men so romantic in the beginning and why do they change? -Why do men take nice girls for granted? -Why does a man respect a woman when she stands up for herself? Full of much-needed advice, hilarious real-life relationship scenarios, "she says/he thinks" tables, and the author’s unique "Attraction Principles," Why Men Love Bitches gives you bottom-line answers. It helps you know who you are, stand your ground, and relate to men on a whole new level. Once you’ve discovered the feisty attitude men find so magnetic, you’ll not only increase the romantic chemistry in the relationship-you’ll gain your man’s love and respect with far less effort.
Publisher: Adams Media
Customer Review: 1 out of 5 Recipe for a frustrating relationship... - There is truth in the book...it echoes such books written for men trying desperately to win over women. These books are effective at picking up "hot chicks" at clubs, or picking up high rollers, business men, lawyers, etc., that many girls' mother told them to snag.
However, if you want a real realationship, such as I have recently found, then throw out all this game-playing. I have a woman now who could easily be a "hot chick" dancing in a club; but now she is mine and loves only me, she's a homebody (which made it a bit difficult to find her, since I am too), but we found each other and we are honest with each other. Sometimes honesty hurts and sometimes it's unwelcome and at times it's a "turn off," but chasing each other around does not lead to a fulfilling REALationship.
I do not discourage reading books on people skills, such as People Skills, by Bolton, which has helped me enrich my friendships tremendously, but the goal should not be to possess someone, but to enrich the relationship. I am grateful for my woman, and I do what I can to please her (not to attract her or catch her, but to please her); writing poems, giving her simple gifts, doing things for her, etc. It's a give and take.
Customer Review: 5 out of 5 Must Read! - This book is wonderful, i haven't gotten the chance to read it fully. But while reading it i felt anxious as if the book was written after viewing all of my dating mistakes! I always wondered why after coming to my home for a dinner prepared by me, most of the men i dated, (whether I slept with them or not) - would lose interest. I was too much like their "mom" or a motherly type. Asking them if they needed anything else and buying them their favorite drinks, and so forth. Not making that mistake again!!
Also, I do treat an ex-boyfriend (I lost interest in) with kind of an aloof demeanor as the book states we should do (I was already doing it). And he keeps buying me gifts or inviting me to dinner/lunch/offering to make me food. I spent 6 months of my life with him trying to get him to notice me. Then when I ignore him - he just keeps trying to impress me. (Don't get me wrong, I'm not rude, I'm nice...enough.)
All those other book that tell you to move on b/c "it wasn't meant to be..." throw them away, this is the book to read!
Customer Review: 4 out of 5 Must read for any women who is just TOO NICE! - I really enjoyed reading this book. It made me think of several women I know how are holding out for their jerk of a boyfriend to finally treat them right. A must read if you feel your relationship is going nowhere ... this book will help you realize that you deserve better treatment and what to do about that! I loved it!
Customer Review: 3 out of 5 Waiting to read the entire book... - As a relationship coach and therapist, I am always interested in learning more about the variety of opinions and ideas out there. I haven't read the book in it's entirety yet, so I will reserve final comment till then. I am not sure if the author's ideas apply to same sex relationships as that is my focus.
Customer Review: 5 out of 5 funny book - its not how to handle man but it gives you different perspective- and its right about few things
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